Buut I hate it when you are throwing out an observation for conversation’s sake… and there is that one guy who HAS to find a way to disagree with it. It’s not like I’m even done talking and this guy is already disputing the first five words out of my mouth. I don’t mind someone disagreeing with me, when we’re talking about something worth debating, but with this guy, it’s like I said: “Man, I really love chocolate.” and he is like “Actually chocolate is really bad for you. It’s been proven this and a study says that. Besides, do you even know how they make chocolate? Seriously, do you?” Me: “…What?” Him: Dude, I’m just saying that I disagree. I don’t like chocolate. Besides, vanilla is much better.”

HOLY SHIT. Why Why Why? Can you please set aside your need to tell everyone exactly how you feel about everything and just ease up. Chill. Relax. Just Be. Take a breath. Read the Tao Te Ching. Calmmmm dowwwwn. and Listen. 

My opinion is just that: my opinion. I like chocolate. It’s not debatable, so fuck off. 

So, as per the title… I’m not trying to arrogant, but I am tired of stupid conversations that lead up somebody’s asshole where their head also happens to reside. 

I NEED good people around me b/c they make me better. And right now I’m going through a drought. 

Dear Life, Throw me a bone. 

I just got back home from Phuket Town ( my home away from home in Thailand ). Tonight is the semi-official kickoff of the Chinese New Years celebrations here that run for the next fifteen days, which pretty much mean fireworks and dragon costumes until I explode in a mess of confetti. We watched Chinese acrobats perform at a park downtown and it taught me a couple things: 1) umbrellas are sexy. 2) there is nothing homosexual about two shirtless, muscled men tumbling around together. I want to be Chinese.

Then I found my tire was flat. So I rode home hobbled. And now I’m sitting down to my computer and a J. No problems. It was a good day.